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	<pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 09:12:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on In what ways can I help people stop smoking through the radio and posters? by Cameron</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cameron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jan 2012 09:39:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Traditionally, stop smoking adds have been focused around the health issues that come with the addiction. This message does not really work due to a here and now mentality. (Most smokers won't feel the pain of their addiction until it's too late.)

I suggest focusing on how life can improve through quitting and that life is in fact much, much better when you stop. 
Do some research and you will find plenty facts to use that support the above. Most if not all smokers at some point believe that they will always be miserable if they quit. 

There are now MORE ex smokers then smokers in the UK, USA and Australia.
Tens of millions have successfully quit and won't ever go back. 

http://www.achoice2live.com/ex-smokers-now-out-number-smokers-in-us-uk-and-australia/

Hope that helps&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;http://www.achoice2live.com/ex-smokers-now-out-number-smokers-in-us-uk-and-australia/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Traditionally, stop smoking adds have been focused around the health issues that come with the addiction. This message does not really work due to a here and now mentality. (Most smokers won&#8217;t feel the pain of their addiction until it&#8217;s too late.)</p>
<p>I suggest focusing on how life can improve through quitting and that life is in fact much, much better when you stop.<br />
Do some research and you will find plenty facts to use that support the above. Most if not all smokers at some point believe that they will always be miserable if they quit. </p>
<p>There are now MORE ex smokers then smokers in the UK, USA and Australia.<br />
Tens of millions have successfully quit and won&#8217;t ever go back. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.achoice2live.com/ex-smokers-now-out-number-smokers-in-us-uk-and-australia/" rel="nofollow">http://www.achoice2live.com/ex-smokers-now-out-number-smokers-in-us-uk-and-australia/</a></p>
<p>Hope that helps<br /><b>References : </b><br /><a href="http://www.achoice2live.com/ex-smokers-now-out-number-smokers-in-us-uk-and-australia/" rel="nofollow">http://www.achoice2live.com/ex-smokers-now-out-number-smokers-in-us-uk-and-australia/</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on How can I get my boyfriend to stop smoking weed ? by Bhgirl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bhgirl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2011 02:09:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>start yourself dont be so dull&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>start yourself dont be so dull<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How can I get my boyfriend to stop smoking weed ? by xcrocks</title>
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		<dc:creator>xcrocks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 00:52:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you cant make him stop and shouldnt. its his life and he will only resent you if you try.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you cant make him stop and shouldnt. its his life and he will only resent you if you try.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How can I get my boyfriend to stop smoking weed ? by volcomguy27</title>
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		<dc:creator>volcomguy27</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 21:01:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First of all, you have to tell us what it is about the weed smoking that bothers you.

Does he waste all his money on it? Does he smoke so much that it is holding him back? Is he using it to escape from his problems? Because those are all legitimate reasons to quit weed (at least for a long time, until the problem is solved).

However, do you not like it because the government, PSA's and fake studies tell you it's bad? If he is living a normal, happy life, then I think you could stand to be a little more open minded. I hate to beat a dead horse, but marijuana is far less harmful than smoking cigarettes and drinking alcohol, even though the idiotic US government places it in the same category as heroin.

So, if there is a real problem, like the ones I mentioned above, simply explain to him how it is being detrimental to him, in a calm way. Make sure he knows through your words and your tone that it's just because you care about him, and you noticed a problem he was having. Never insult him or say anything that could be percieved as an &#34;attack&#34;, because that is one quick way to get him to not listen to you. Instead, frame it as a positive thing. It should be more of a tone like &#34;oh, look over here, this looks pretty awesome&#34; rather than &#34;Don't stay there, that place sucks&#34; if you get what I mean. Try to do way more of the former and less of the latter.

However, it just sounds like you are opposed to weed because of all the negativity surrounding it. If you want a little truth, you could watch a documentary called &#34;The Union: The Business behind getting high&#34;. Or you could also do some research of your own. And no, not on any anti-drug sites either, because those statements are completely biased. As a marijuana user, I know from first hand experience that they completely exaggerate the harmful effects of marijuana to the point of flat out lying and fear mongering. You CAN use marijuana your whole life (after you're 18/21 when your brain is developed enough) with no harmful effects at all, if you do it right (vaporize instead of smoking, know the right time to use it, as in, don't show up to work stoned, make sure you budget right, if it's illegal, keep it hidden, locked away, maybe in a scent proof bag, etc. etc. just common sense, personal responsibility stuff)

Remember, weed itself isn't harmful. It's how you use it, that can POSSIBLY be harmful. So if he has a problem, address that it's HOW he smokes weed, and how he is using it in a way that is not good. However, the same way society views occasional drunkenness as an O.K. thing (though I think drinking is a pretty nasty thing to do to your body), marijuana can be much safer, more enjoyable, healthier alternative if used correctly.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First of all, you have to tell us what it is about the weed smoking that bothers you.</p>
<p>Does he waste all his money on it? Does he smoke so much that it is holding him back? Is he using it to escape from his problems? Because those are all legitimate reasons to quit weed (at least for a long time, until the problem is solved).</p>
<p>However, do you not like it because the government, PSA&#8217;s and fake studies tell you it&#8217;s bad? If he is living a normal, happy life, then I think you could stand to be a little more open minded. I hate to beat a dead horse, but marijuana is far less harmful than smoking cigarettes and drinking alcohol, even though the idiotic US government places it in the same category as heroin.</p>
<p>So, if there is a real problem, like the ones I mentioned above, simply explain to him how it is being detrimental to him, in a calm way. Make sure he knows through your words and your tone that it&#8217;s just because you care about him, and you noticed a problem he was having. Never insult him or say anything that could be percieved as an &quot;attack&quot;, because that is one quick way to get him to not listen to you. Instead, frame it as a positive thing. It should be more of a tone like &quot;oh, look over here, this looks pretty awesome&quot; rather than &quot;Don&#8217;t stay there, that place sucks&quot; if you get what I mean. Try to do way more of the former and less of the latter.</p>
<p>However, it just sounds like you are opposed to weed because of all the negativity surrounding it. If you want a little truth, you could watch a documentary called &quot;The Union: The Business behind getting high&quot;. Or you could also do some research of your own. And no, not on any anti-drug sites either, because those statements are completely biased. As a marijuana user, I know from first hand experience that they completely exaggerate the harmful effects of marijuana to the point of flat out lying and fear mongering. You CAN use marijuana your whole life (after you&#8217;re 18/21 when your brain is developed enough) with no harmful effects at all, if you do it right (vaporize instead of smoking, know the right time to use it, as in, don&#8217;t show up to work stoned, make sure you budget right, if it&#8217;s illegal, keep it hidden, locked away, maybe in a scent proof bag, etc. etc. just common sense, personal responsibility stuff)</p>
<p>Remember, weed itself isn&#8217;t harmful. It&#8217;s how you use it, that can POSSIBLY be harmful. So if he has a problem, address that it&#8217;s HOW he smokes weed, and how he is using it in a way that is not good. However, the same way society views occasional drunkenness as an O.K. thing (though I think drinking is a pretty nasty thing to do to your body), marijuana can be much safer, more enjoyable, healthier alternative if used correctly.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How can I get my boyfriend to stop smoking weed ? by Canaan'N'Eli'sMommy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Canaan'N'Eli'sMommy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Dec 2011 22:32:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sweetie it will never happen. I've been with my bf for almost six years, and I've been trying to get him to stop smoking weed for 5. He won't stop smoking it until/unless HE WANTS TO. And the girl above me is right, if he had to choose between you and the weed, YOU WILL LOSE. So if there is no way you can accept it (and no one says you should have to), then you should just move on.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;Personal experience</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sweetie it will never happen. I&#8217;ve been with my bf for almost six years, and I&#8217;ve been trying to get him to stop smoking weed for 5. He won&#8217;t stop smoking it until/unless HE WANTS TO. And the girl above me is right, if he had to choose between you and the weed, YOU WILL LOSE. So if there is no way you can accept it (and no one says you should have to), then you should just move on.<br /><b>References : </b><br />Personal experience</p>
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		<title>Comment on How can I get my boyfriend to stop smoking weed ? by caaaad</title>
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		<dc:creator>caaaad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Dec 2011 22:18:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your smart and he's not. Dopers are usually dopers and there are many reasons why they want to numb themselves and run from life. Over eaters do it also as do a list of other behaviors. This is a test for the quality of your relationship. Don't give in or minimize it. If you can't work this out why continue. I would suggest a break with no contact. While on break I would reevaluate why your ok with a junkie. Sounds to me like you can do a whole lot better. Of course once he sees how serious you are he will reconsider, and so it will be for the rest of your lives. You taking the lead and him kicking and screaming. I would kick him to the curb and found someone on your level of intelligence&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your smart and he&#8217;s not. Dopers are usually dopers and there are many reasons why they want to numb themselves and run from life. Over eaters do it also as do a list of other behaviors. This is a test for the quality of your relationship. Don&#8217;t give in or minimize it. If you can&#8217;t work this out why continue. I would suggest a break with no contact. While on break I would reevaluate why your ok with a junkie. Sounds to me like you can do a whole lot better. Of course once he sees how serious you are he will reconsider, and so it will be for the rest of your lives. You taking the lead and him kicking and screaming. I would kick him to the curb and found someone on your level of intelligence<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How can I get my boyfriend to stop smoking weed ? by Jodi D</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jodi D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Dec 2011 22:15:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You can't.  If he had to choose between you and weed, you'd lose.  He might try to pretend to you, for awhile, that he had quit, but even if you found out that he hadn't, he wouldn't quit.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You can&#8217;t.  If he had to choose between you and weed, you&#8217;d lose.  He might try to pretend to you, for awhile, that he had quit, but even if you found out that he hadn&#8217;t, he wouldn&#8217;t quit.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How do you stop smoking weed if it helps with depression? by Oren Ganon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Oren Ganon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Dec 2011 07:19:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Its NOT helps with depression!&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Its NOT helps with depression!<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How do you stop smoking weed if it helps with depression? by Kahuna Walez</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kahuna Walez</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2011 02:41:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would strongly recommend NOT switching to an anti depressant. You can find marijuana that will give you more of a body high so you feel good without really getting mentally high so you can learn and study easier. Also you could cut down a bit, smoke only enough. If you have a prescription to medical marijuana you could ask a person at your local dispensary about weed that is for more of a body high.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would strongly recommend NOT switching to an anti depressant. You can find marijuana that will give you more of a body high so you feel good without really getting mentally high so you can learn and study easier. Also you could cut down a bit, smoke only enough. If you have a prescription to medical marijuana you could ask a person at your local dispensary about weed that is for more of a body high.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How do you stop smoking weed if it helps with depression? by Katie W</title>
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		<dc:creator>Katie W</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Dec 2011 22:15:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You have to detach yourself from depending on it for depression. It sucks, I know. Start slowly, don't do it cold turkey. Start smoking like twice a day, then once, then once every other day etc. You don't have to quit entirely, just start doing it for recreational use instead of for depression. My best friend went super stoner when she was depressed but you just have to ease off of it. I'm in college too and it can be challenging to balance between school and everything. I am on a two week break from it right now because of finals but I know that when I get back I can get stoned again. Tough it out, I know you can.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You have to detach yourself from depending on it for depression. It sucks, I know. Start slowly, don&#8217;t do it cold turkey. Start smoking like twice a day, then once, then once every other day etc. You don&#8217;t have to quit entirely, just start doing it for recreational use instead of for depression. My best friend went super stoner when she was depressed but you just have to ease off of it. I&#8217;m in college too and it can be challenging to balance between school and everything. I am on a two week break from it right now because of finals but I know that when I get back I can get stoned again. Tough it out, I know you can.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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